Blog
Spring & Covid-19
Bad news and fear of worsening days, scarcity mindsets, hoarding and self-preservation juxtaposes a season we know as one of awe, wonder, expectation, and rebirth.
A Missing Piece
. . . there can be some perpetual gridlocks and unfinished business couples need to confront before the relationship can feel like there is any hope for it ever being a place of safety. What can keep a couple from finding freedom and safety in one another?
Raw Spots & Connection
When our most important connections feel threatened so does survival. When survival feels threatened we sort of lose our minds and act in ways we don’t recognize.
Out of the Negative Cycle
Believe it or not, a well-researched road map exists that guides couples back to places of safety, intimacy, and connection (even after affairs and other difficult betrayals).
Emotional Presence
It takes loads of inertia to get us out of our ruts and moving in a better direction. Unfortunately, sometimes the only motivating factor is a partner who has had enough.
Attachment & Marriage
The bottom line question that each partner wants to have answered in both word and action is, “Are you there for me?”
The Marriage Puzzle: Sex
Acts of physical intimacy devoid of emotional safety and connection further a relationship’s movement toward devastation.
The Marriage Puzzle Pt.1
Marriages can be healed. Connections can be revived. The hope for a future together can be restored.