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Part 2 of Relational Conflict: Gardens or Graves
Part 1, Relational Conflict: Gardens or Graves, used a lot of words and very long, complex sentences. More than I liked. So I wanted to do a second part that puts together what I tried to say in a more readable way. Part 1 establishes the concept. Part 2, defines it.
The Soul’s Pace
Hurry is not of the devil; hurry is the devil -Carl Jung
What would happen if we made space for our souls? What would happen if we slowed down?
Your Spot in His Heart
As we invite Him into our internal landscape to process our own painful experiences of abandonment and desolation, we learn what true attachment feels like. You can find what you’ve always needed in the hesed love of your Heavenly Father.
Attachment & God (pt3)
If there are clinical methods to restore attachment within yourself and with others, then you better believe God’s got his own powerful system for repair-enting you into a total restoration of your attachment to Him—union with Christ.
Identity Cancelled
For many of these kids, this most recent turn in the shutting down of schools, gyms, and extracurriculars has also shut down what helps to define them.
And what defines us aligns us.
Out of the Negative Cycle
Believe it or not, a well-researched road map exists that guides couples back to places of safety, intimacy, and connection (even after affairs and other difficult betrayals).
Emotional Presence
It takes loads of inertia to get us out of our ruts and moving in a better direction. Unfortunately, sometimes the only motivating factor is a partner who has had enough.
Attachment & Marriage
The bottom line question that each partner wants to have answered in both word and action is, “Are you there for me?”