Lanie Timko 3/12/22 Lanie Timko 3/12/22

Attachment & God (pt3)

If there are clinical methods to restore attachment within yourself and with others, then you better believe God’s got his own powerful system for repair-enting you into a total restoration of your attachment to Him—union with Christ.

Lanie Timko 3/5/22 Lanie Timko 3/5/22

Attachment & God (pt 2)

You can rest assured that Christ suffered the deepest agony of existence so that you could experience the most abundant joy a human can know—your Creator’s loving acceptance, connection, and presence. His love made attachment to God a one-step process that’s renewable moment by moment.

Lanie Timko 2/23/22 Lanie Timko 2/23/22

Attachment and God (part 1)

After turning toward the Father with his emotional pain and brokenness, David experiences union with Him (attachment), and he regains his composure. He finds comfort like a little baby who has fallen asleep in his mother’s arms.

Lanie Timko 12/2/21 Lanie Timko 12/2/21

Kids and Pain

Emotionally anchoring the little ones with our soothing voices, gentle touches, and safe presence gives them a sense that we caregivers can tolerate and be with them in their distress, setting them up to trust us for an emotionally supported and connected adolescence.

Lanie Timko 12/30/20 Lanie Timko 12/30/20

Identity Cancelled

For many of these kids, this most recent turn in the shutting down of schools, gyms, and extracurriculars has also shut down what helps to define them.

And what defines us aligns us.

Lanie Timko 11/13/20 Lanie Timko 11/13/20

Kids, Soul Care & Covid-19

The goal isn’t perfectly attached and attuned parenting; it’s simply to adjust a few things so that you can be more present throughout the day and in new ways.

Lanie Timko 10/4/20 Lanie Timko 10/4/20

Chaos Proofing Your Life

Lanie Timko 7/13/20 Lanie Timko 7/13/20

Anchoring with Prayer

We will not navigate these times well without learning to pray. As summer ends and the fall hits, things will get harder and not easier.

Lanie Timko 5/3/20 Lanie Timko 5/3/20

No Guarantees

What lies before me is the undeniable contrast I have now experienced as a result of the pandemic. Contrasts related to time and its lack of guarantees.

Lanie Timko 3/24/20 Lanie Timko 3/24/20

Searching for God

Where is God? Where are the anchors? In my own process I am finding the only pathway to God in all of this is to sit with the heaviness and grief, cry through the overwhelm, and journal every thought, doubt, and fear.

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