Win the battle within.
A home for athletes to master the inner game of sport — so the scoreboard stops owning the soul, and the player walks back onto the field free.
Sport is a laboratory for life.
The real goal of sport is the development of the whole person. The Forge applies inner training where it's usually missing — in the same place coaches usually only manage outcomes.
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Forming inner strength
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Discovering and empowering identity
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Pairing performance and person
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Releasing freedom and joy
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Relieving pressure that disrupts flow
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Stoking passion and purpose
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Activating core / inner force within
are not your performance.
We begin here because everything else collapses without it. Approach obstacles with courage rather than fearfully avoiding them — and let sport become an expression of who you already are.
As a mom of 5, I've watched a few of my own kids lose their joy, confidence, and love for the game because of leaders who treated them like commodities. As a therapist I have spent hours with current and ex-athletes struggling with hurt and confusion because their parents' love seemed conditional based upon performance.
You've probably seen this too. A young athlete works hard, dreams big, gives everything — and then gets treated like he or she only matters when adding points to a scoreboard. This is too common nowadays. And unfortunately, the experience can haunt that player well into adulthood.
We call it what it is: soul crushing.
When athletes start competing from a place of being loved rather than competing for love, something shifts and they find their joy, their freedom, and their flow. Their breakthroughs in both personhood and sport are a bigger deal to me than any of my own personal athletic successes.
— Lanie Timko
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR · CENTER FOR SOUL CARE
The curriculum, in order.
Developed by Sean Casey and John Dennis. Delivered in a small group over 8 meetings — experiential inner training, not a lecture series.
Forming inner strength
The foundation. What inner strength actually is, and why it's not the same as toughness.
Identity, separate from sport
Who you are when the jersey is off. Locating the part of you the scoreboard can't touch.
Pairing performance and person
Letting sport become an expression of identity, instead of a referendum on worth.
Naming the inner stuff
Fear, anger, freeze, shrinking. Learning to spot them in the moment.
Releasing freedom and joy
How to play loose under pressure — and why looseness is the opposite of carelessness.
Stoking passion and purpose
Reconnecting with why you started. Why purpose outlasts results.
Activating the inner force
Practical tools that work mid-game, mid-practice, mid-set.
Carrying it beyond sport
Sport as the laboratory for life. What stays with you long after the last season.
There's a place here with your name on it.
Small groups of 6–8 teen athletes. Eight weekly sessions. We'll reply within a couple of days and set up a short call before anyone commits to anything.