You and your partner aren’t getting along. Worse than that, what should be the easiest conversations and interactions turn into the biggest messes and you have no idea how to prevent them, let alone clean them up.  You’re tired of fighting and want to get out of the cycles that create tension and disappointment.  So many dreams for the future are attached to this relationship and your deepest desire is to recover the friendship, the intimacy, and the place of safety you both once knew.

What happened?

You aren’t really sure if you can do another day, let alone another year with each other. Your thoughts often go to the early days of your relationship where laughing was such a huge part of your interactions.  Being together was easy and safe and natural.  Now you are afraid to even ask the simplest questions.  

You question where things went wrong. Were you too preoccupied with your career?  The kids?  Your health challenges?   Did the pressure of holding all of it together smother the spark and suffocate the flame?

Is there hope?

Now you wonder, can the flame be reignited?  Can people this far along, with so much distance and misunderstanding between them fall in love again?  Hopeless and out of solutions, you are hanging on for so many important reasons that are close to your heart. You just aren’t sure for how much longer.

At Soul Care Place, we can help.

Relationships are complicated and mysterious, yet we live in a time where researchers have learned what it takes for a relationship to thrive.  We’ve committed ourselves to studying the research, gathering the tools, and then sharing with motivated and growth minded couples the solutions available to them. 

Couples in distress and disconnect can learn new patterns of relating. In therapy they sort through their cycles and their history, learning more about themselves and one another, and how both intersect to impact the relationship in ways that can heal ruptures and strengthen safety, connection, and intimacy. 

We are committed to equipping couples with the education, compassion, and tools they need to move toward fulfilling and sustainable relationship.